I find more often than not, church-goers like their church because it feels comfortable. When they look around the church, it’s made up of people just like them. All unity. No diversity. And nothing to ruffle their feathers, or stretch and use their faith. But that’s not how it’s supposed to be.
The church isn’t supposed to a club made of members who are exactly like us. It’s supposed to be made of people from all walks of life who are united by the blood of Christ. Unfortunately, Christ is often secondary to our comfort, even in church.
Here is a good post on how to change the comfort level in your church, and how you’ll all grow closer to Christ as a result.